“Hold on steady and strong, here’s the dawn coming on won’t be long. Then the sun will come shining through, to show me the place I once new. Fare thee well.” If you haven’t heard Kate Rusby’s “Fare Thee Well,” I suggest you get on that.
Is it wrong that the only thing bringing me solace right now is the fact that I will eventually find a job, and the class of 2009 will fill my shoes as the suburban loaf-about?
Today I had a snap back to reality. Perhaps it was that ER ended their ten-year run, and I remembered when it started, making me feel ridiculously old, or perhaps it was overhearing my oldest brother talk about how much he hates “Cubicle City.” Or further still, that my parents called my brother and I townies after we went to a local pub for some libations last night. In any case, I have lit yet another fire, hopefully this time the tiniest drop of naysayer won’t squash it out.
I don’t think I let myself realize it until lately, but since I’ve been home, I’ve become much more scared of my future than excited. That bothers me, and I’m glad to have realized it. Part of the reason, but not the entire reason, I’m scared is because I’ve become accustomed to living at home with Larry and Sheila (parents, and roommates extraordinaire). I’ve so easily fallen into the trap I accidentally set for myself by ever moving back to my hometown after interning on the other side of the country. And now I just need to make a break for it. I don’t know where that will lead me, but I know that no matter the amount of time I’ve been home, it’s too much.
As spring sprouts (though Chicago winter still has a stronghold here), I’ve given myself a self-imposed deadline. If I don’t have a full-time position in a month (a week and a half has already passed), then I’m either applying to graduate school, moving abroad to teach English as a second language, or just plain moving. I’ll keep you posted. So, “with this song, I’ll be gone. Fare thee well.”